How To Have Better Sex: 10 Tips To Make It Hotter
Sex can be an exciting, pleasurable and satisfying experience for both partners, but sometimes it can just feel…well, meh. Most of us want to have better sex, but we don’t know where to start. If you’re looking for ways to experience more pleasure, passion, and connection in your sex life, these tips can help.
1. Communicate Your Desires
One of the most important aspects of having better sex is communication. Talk to your partner about your wants and desires. Many people feel uncomfortable talking about sex, but effective communication can help open up a world of possibilities—for both of you. Rather than feeling embarrassed or ashamed, think of it as an adventure—and don’t be afraid to laugh when it’s awkward.
2. Experiment with Sensation
Sensation play involves using different types of stimulation to explore how it feels, ranging from light to intense. This could include feather-light touches with a feather, gentle and teasing scrubbing with a loofah or stimulating rubbing with a fur mitt. Exploring different types of sensations can help you identify what you like and don’t like, and often leads to creative and stimulating exploration.
3. Keep it Fresh
It’s easy to settle into a rut or routine with sex, but that doesn’t guarantee that it’ll always be enjoyable. Varying up your sexual activities and locations can help keep things fresh and exciting. For example, try a different position or a new toy. Explore different places in your home, such as the kitchen or living room. If you’re really adventurous, you could even make it a special occasion and book a romantic getaway.
4. Take Care of Your Body
Having a strong and healthy body is essential for having good sex. Eating healthy, exercising and living a healthy lifestyle all have a positive impact on our sex lives. Practicing things like yoga and mindfulness can increase body awareness and help you feel more connected to your own pleasure and sensations.
5. Explore Different Types of Touch
Touch is an important part of sex, and different kinds of touch can bring different feelings and sensations. Take some time to experiment with different types of touch. For example, caressing your partner all over with lightly, barely touching their skin can be incredibly sensual. On the other hand, firm massage of the neck and back can be very relaxing and help release tension.
6. Stimulate Your Mind
Our minds and bodies are inextricably linked, so it’s important to stimulate both when it comes to sex. Making time for mental stimulation, such as watching an erotic movie, reading erotica, or fantasizing can help get our minds in the mood and increase the physical pleasure. Exploring our own fantasies can also be a great way to get to know our own desires better.
7. Increase Intimacy
Intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about having meaningful and connected conversations and shared experiences. Spending quality time together outside of the bedroom can help increase intimacy when you’re in the bedroom. This could be as simple as an evening stroll or a more elaborate date night.
8. Be Open
It’s important to be open to new ideas and techniques when you’re exploring better sex. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or share what you think. Being open and willing to try new things can help both partners feel safe and secure in exploring uncharted territories.
9. Be Patient
Sometimes sex can be incredibly pleasurable, and other times it can be not-so-great. Being patient and taking time to try new ideas or work through difficulties can lead to great things. Experiencing orgasmic pleasure takes practice, patience, and open communication.
10. Recharge Your Batteries
For many of us, our sex lives can suffer from exhaustion, stress and exhaustion. Taking time to recharge our batteries, by taking a break from our work or activities, or simply taking some time for ourselves, can help rejuvenate us and get us back to feeling our passionate best.
Making your sex life better doesn’t have to be a major task. With some effort, communication, and exploration, you can have better sex and more connection in your relationships. Keeping these tips in mind and remembering to be open and honest with each other can make all the difference in your sex life.